When a relationship turns sour

Phew.. Notice that I've been missing from my blog for a very long long time. Maybe I've nothing to write or maybe no feelings in me. The FACT is I'm lazy.. Always wanted to write something but always that lazy to even switch on my lappy..

Recently lotsa things happen around me. The one which affects me the most is between my bff and a Mr Nice Guy's relations. Yup.. They had ended their newly bloom love. Hearing from her makes me feel that I am to blame. I'm the one encouraging her to take the first step. I'm the one asking her to learn to appreciate and love the one before her. But guess its all wrong. I've made 2 different souls to be together and it ended sourly. I could not conclude who is on the right or wrong side when the relations ended. Afterall, I'm just a 3rd party standing outside seeing the outcast of the whole saga. All I know that when a love is gone, it will turn very sour and one may change into a devil in just a day.

Having to know lotsa things after chatting with her. Knowing that sometimes truth is cruel and words can be hurting. Even putting words into other's mouth is cruel too. Used to all these and nothing special to me. As long as everything is clear up, I'm still me. I always the truth will come to a light when the times ripe. There is no need to confront and god will know it They will punish those who just spout words which is not said. Lucky enough that this BFF of mine knows me well and will understand me. I always never know that I can be such a great influenence. But I'll very much wanna clear this up. Naggy is part of me and I will never ever force one to follow my view. I just share what I view and try to bring out situation for you to see. So decision is still yourself and never blame anyone after the decision is made. And this BFF of mine always refuse to listen, she'll always do it her way which ended up hurting herself (but there are times she had it her way!). "Orbi good! Don't listen to me lah! See lah!" ;) this is what I always tell her.. Nevertheless, I still can't believe that I'm a great influence (a person who always give lousy view and make OTHERS choose the wrong decision - To whom may think this way). Well I think I should keep mum and never ever share anymore my point of view to ppl that I don't really know. Haiz.. Having vent out this is really soothing. Anyway it had ended and nothing to do with me anymore. Who is right and who is wrong? I don't know. Maybe everyone has their own way of thinking.

Just hope both of them will be happy after parting each other. I hope she will be strong and move on happily. And I hope the man will find his "one" and live on. I hope too this saga ends well.. Coming back to see all the lovers around me. Love is just something so wonderful. Love can make some blind and too can make one turns into devil. So be smart in choosing ur love one and don't ended up as a devil..!!

P/S : Wishing all lovers will be happily ever after.

人生 - LIFE

人生 - 人生本来就是喜奴无常。往往想要的都不能实现。 要求太多反而会伤的深，所以让自然走向你就不会伤的那么深。顺其自然是最好的办法。 想太多不就是让自己不开心，让自己烦脑。

有时后我在想，为什么我的身边的人为什么会那么的不开心。看到他们那么的不开心我会不自然的也跟着不开心。我很想帮助他们不过家家有本难念的经，只希望他们能开开心心的生活。虽然我不能帮你什么但是我经神上支持你哟！

说到这里，我也在想为什么人总是要等到失去了才知道后悔。可是都以不能挽回了。人生就是这样， 它不会等你去后悔，然后在让你拥有。不见了，就是不见了，要找回来也不能找了。机会流走了就没了，把握机会才是最好的办法，千万不要放手。幸福是自己找的，它不会自己来的。

I'm having hard times writing the above words. Hahahah.. It proves that I haven't been using Chinese words for a long long time. Think I should write more Chinese post to keep myself with the Chinese words.

My dear friend is facing her downs again. Can hardly help her to ease the pain, all I can do is too listen and talk her out. Hoping she will be strong again. Seeing or hearing her like this is a pain. Wonder when can I hear her true laugh again. Hoping the man she is with will support her and held her in his arms. Being in love, we have to learn to give and take. Love don't come so easily and once lost, it is lost forever. We have to learn to give and take, we have to learn each others problem and too we have to learn to listen each others problem. Why have doubt in each other when you love your the other part? Believe in each other is the key to the success of the fruitful love. Nobody can help you in this, only you yourself can do to the success of love.

At this time, I hope they will be find. Facing problem together and not run away. She is always doing things to protect him and yet He don't know what is she thinking about. He every time wants to talk out with her but He don't dares too as he worry She will be annoyed. Love is not like this. Understand what your other part want to help you and say what you need to say without hurting your other part.

End of the day, love is around you. All you need is held out your hand and to grab your chance.